Posted on: October 25, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 9

Making of a Wordsmith

It irked  me no end and yet he stood his ground. Cribbing or cajoling  didn’t  help nor did temper tantrums. I just had to do as told and how I hated it. But now almost half a century later I am grateful for my dad’s persistence which bordered on obstinacy. The written word has always fascinated me. As kids, all of us siblings were voracious readers. We would read anything…

Posted on: October 13, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 8

Maasik Adharm

It’s that time of the year again and we are discussing that time of the month again. The Navratris are here and as the nation gears up to worship the female form, her right to worship because of her femininity is being debated.   These ten days ( and nine nights !)  are a celebration of womanhood, the sacred time when even the most chauvinistic misogynists will bow their heads…

Posted on: October 4, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 1

Backpacking sans Backpack

When it was first suggested, I dismissed it with an impatient wave of the hand. It was impossible.  How could I do it without my trusted backpack? It had all the things that I needed for my little adventure. I had meticulously packed it over a fortnight, putting  items in various pockets after much deliberation.  We ( a group of seven women and two wise men) were embarking on a…

Posted on: September 29, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 1

Twisted Mother Tongue

Awaiting an appointment, I was roaming the corridors of a premium medical college in the capital. A tired, old man hobbled up to me and asked if I could direct him to the TB ward. I told him he was standing right next to it and pointed at the signboard. He haltingly read ‘ phoophsiya yakshma vibhag’  written under Department of Pulmonary Tuberculosis (T.B) and remained clueless. I pitied his…

Posted on: September 28, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 3

Picture this

Once upon a time, not so long ago, there lived a king and queen who took too many pictures. If they wrote it, this is how my story  would read.  It was just three reels yet was becoming family folklore. We had committed the crime of  taking more than a hundred pictures on our week long honeymoon. “That is more than fifteen snaps in a day,” the kinsmen solemnly observed.…

Posted on: September 15, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 4

Fair Play

It was not what she said but the way she said it that surprised me. There was pride in her voice, none of the usual disappointed resignation that accompanies such information. Before the cropped hair young girl could answer, her grandmother had volunteered,  “Circus karra kare .” Intrigued, I looked questioningly at the girl, again the dadi spoke first,  “Yoga nahin hua karein, angrezon wala, woh kare hai.” Finally, the…

Posted on: September 12, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 16

Distance Education

The message filled me with dread but there seemed to be no escape. I gingerly typed k ( which is cooler than ok, which is much cooler than okay ) and waited for him to call. Seconds later he appeared on the screen, sleepy eyed and unshaven. This isn’t going to go well a small inner voice warned me, but sometimes no matter what, you have to do what needs…

Posted on: September 1, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 4

Raksha Bandhan

The teenager sang it gleefully, his fingers drumming my table, the twinkle never leaving his eyes and his father, an old patient of mine, nodded with the beat, proud as punch at his son’s rendition. Ho mantri teri chaal Tera silly suraksha jaal Ab main is se zyaada kya kahoon Main gusse me gaali de gaya Oye ki kariye, ki kariye Dil chhalni sadda ho gaya Oye ki kariye, ki…

Posted on: August 18, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 1

Distant Friends

We slowly gravitated towards each other,  the seven of us, so different,  yet so alike. By the end of second year we were inseparable and had a name Saptrishi.  Our friendship survived the rigours of medical education, the insecurities of adolescence and three decades of silence. After leaving college all of us got busy in building careers and raising  families. We met a few times in class reunions, rarely phoned…

Posted on: August 18, 2018 Posted by: Manju Gupta Comments: 4

Scared of the Sacred

As we weaved our way through them  I could sense the fear. Our driver was overtly overly cautious. I wondered whether it was their overwhelming numbers or the unrestrained ebullient kinesics. Some prodding and the driver blurted how a car had been trashed and upturned earlier in the day because it had touched one of them. He further recounted a similar incident in his own company the previous year. Having…